as love crowns you he crucifies you

she'll always be that one storm.

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She'll always be the chick who blew you off your feet then buffeted you while you were down?

Sounds about right.

She's established a pattern of it now, too, straight from the fingertips of one of her other ~~victims~~ exes.

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hep.livejournal.com

who is the one commenting in whose journal? maybe you can write me a memo on how to leave someone alone while constantly harassing them because of your low sef esteem over your lovers former relationship?

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dapper-dan-man.livejournal.com

Shhhh..the adults are talking.

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hep.livejournal.com

not so far, son. i'll let you know if i see any.

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I think bigger kids just made them up to scare us.

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Want he should go back and change all his past entries so that she's referenced only as a friend throughout the months that they were together, too?

How about you go around propagating her insane claims that his contacting her a few times while it was a "break" to see what was going on, or showing up to return her things, constituted "stalking?"

How about let's ignore defamation of character laws?

How about we ignore how this effects anyone else connected to him?

We're bigger kids, we can throw our weight around, right? Claiming to be an adult RELINQUISHES responsibility! I knew I missed something. Jeeze, does that ever take a fucking load off.

You know what, she wanted space, and that was cool. She wanted to find herself, that was cool. She didn't want to go into heavy explanations of what she was going through, that was cool.

When she shoved him out of the community with lies and defamation? Or was that one of her lackeys ...? Well, I saw most of that. I was there for most of that. That was not cool.

Telling him not to show up where she goes, and then showing up where she knew where he'd be, then either of you pulling a psychotic hissy-fit because he pointed it out? Bullshit. Pure fucking bright green babyshit mel-o-drama-llama bullshit.

OK?

Bullshit on every fucking level.

Bullshit to your claims to family, bullshit to your claims of honesty and compassion, bullshit to your faux maturity, get up, grow up, grow balls, grow your own mind, deal with it, grow the FUCK UP.

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BTW, where were his supporters all this time ...?

Right here, supporting him directly, NOT trying to push her out of the Repo community, defaming her character, or harassing her.

I contacted her once to see her side of the story.

I contacted her a second time to warn her that she was seriously injuring him by taking the whole scene away from him.

But for the most part ...? His friends are grown up enough to stick where they're needed and do things right. Hers take part in a witch-hunt. Do the fucking math.

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Wow are you all just totally missing the fucking point. No wonder she, nor any of the rest of us, can deal with the lot of you.

Just go back to The Real World Yorktown edition, or Big Brother, or whatever TRL emo knock off you guys crawled out of.

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No, you missed the point by accepting the demonization of someone whose viewpoint you never even tried to take into account.

Good job. You're missing ALL the points because you've got like, half of one that makes you feel good when you rub it all over yourself.

I've always been right over here being fair, balanced, accepting my bias and being a real-life grown up instead of harassing and defaming people. Try joining in sometime. It's not as hard as it looks.

(Holy shit, guys, Cryptie loses her temper? That discounts EVERYTHING SHE'S EVER FUCKING SAID.)

BTW. Fuck you and the horse that takes you up the ass.

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[18:37] LadyCrypty: Jay's ex, who he got into the Repo fandom with, decided she never wanted to talk to him or see him again. He checked with her a couple times while it was a "break" to see what was going on. He showed up a couple times to give her back some of her stuff. He stayed away from the shows she went to, he stayed away from the renfaire when she was going to be there, and she "gave" him a specific bar that she intended not to go to.
[18:38] LadyCrypty: So she goes around telling the community that his sparse phone calls, notes, and occasional presence to return her shit constitutes stalking -- the whole Repo community regards him as a creepy stalker now -- and felt the need to show up recently, with her new boyfriend, to the bar she "gave" Jay. Games. Bullshit psycho bitch games.
[18:39] LadyCrypty: So he contacts the other guy to say "Hey, I saw you there, didn't cause a scene, does that dispell some of the lies propagated about me?" and the guy is now stirring drama because he has a dick-cozy that he wants to keep warm and happy.
[18:40] LadyCrypty: All the while, defamation of character and ostracism from the community has been rampant because nobody's allowed to question or challenge it. Fuck this noise.
[18:40] (anonymous friend): That's a little insane
[18:40] LadyCrypty: "Don't stalk me, I'm trying to stalk you." Serious.

Would you react with a Barney the Dinosaur singalong to this kind of crap? Come ON.

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tigerofthenight.livejournal.com

I like you, you can stay.

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How's that dick cozy goin' now?

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great question. hey "mr. tornado", how IS that dick cozy going now?

lulz.

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Ok, fine. Admittedly, he should probably change the tag. It's been irking me for a bit, too.

To what? I mean, Tornado IS the name HE gave her... better Tornado than using her real name, which would be kind of stalkery, don'tcha think?

But really? Really? THIS, of all things, is what you can find issue with, after all your talk?

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honestly, it's in the past tense.

like saying "my lunch from yesterday" or "my bowel movement from this morning."

the lunch is eaten, the toilet is flushed. just because it's digested and gone, doesn't cause it to stop being.

it's a literary thing, i guess one would have to be into writing and reading to understand it.

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Point taken. (I like books too, y'know.)
I still think you should change it.

In any case, see the rest of my comment for its real point.

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oh, i get it. i get your point.

honestly, unless it's a 3 second fix, it's not worth my time.

(how about we just all pretend "my tornado" actually means "fucking coward"?)

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It's about a 10 second fix, you can do it from /manage/tags.

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wait... is it worth 10 seconds to make the poor boy stop wanting to eat vicodins and punch things?

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ohhhh, that's a tough one...

I say do it, and see what other petty made up offenses he gets mad at you for when you take this one away. :D

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well if that's his ONE issue with me... i guess that's not so bad.

(next offense: "she still tastes like you.")

god... wait till he reads HER journal.

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He doesn't have either of the LJs she's made on his list. Funny, that.

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fear of the truth. these people are of the same cloth.

wait... what was the second one?

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startower was before you.

Edited Date: 2009-08-28 01:42 am (UTC)

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well... if you abandon your journals one by one... you don't have to worry about drowning in your own lies...

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He'll break up with her and come back to tell Krow "She's not YOUR ex anymore, so stop calling her that!"

"...And stop stopping talking to her, just don't talk to her without stopping talking to her, because I'm the one busy stopping talking to her, because it's JUST A BREAK! I think I'd better make the rounds of her house again to make sure YOU'RE NOT STALKING HER."

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