who is the one commenting in whose journal? maybe you can write me a memo on how to leave someone alone while constantly harassing them because of your low sef esteem over your lovers former relationship?
Want he should go back and change all his past entries so that she's referenced only as a friend throughout the months that they were together, too?
How about you go around propagating her insane claims that his contacting her a few times while it was a "break" to see what was going on, or showing up to return her things, constituted "stalking?"
How about let's ignore defamation of character laws?
How about we ignore how this effects anyone else connected to him?
We're bigger kids, we can throw our weight around, right? Claiming to be an adult RELINQUISHES responsibility! I knew I missed something. Jeeze, does that ever take a fucking load off.
You know what, she wanted space, and that was cool. She wanted to find herself, that was cool. She didn't want to go into heavy explanations of what she was going through, that was cool.
When she shoved him out of the community with lies and defamation? Or was that one of her lackeys ...? Well, I saw most of that. I was there for most of that. That was not cool.
Telling him not to show up where she goes, and then showing up where she knew where he'd be, then either of you pulling a psychotic hissy-fit because he pointed it out? Bullshit. Pure fucking bright green babyshit mel-o-drama-llama bullshit.
OK?
Bullshit on every fucking level.
Bullshit to your claims to family, bullshit to your claims of honesty and compassion, bullshit to your faux maturity, get up, grow up, grow balls, grow your own mind, deal with it, grow the FUCK UP.
Right here, supporting him directly, NOT trying to push her out of the Repo community, defaming her character, or harassing her.
I contacted her once to see her side of the story.
I contacted her a second time to warn her that she was seriously injuring him by taking the whole scene away from him.
But for the most part ...? His friends are grown up enough to stick where they're needed and do things right. Hers take part in a witch-hunt. Do the fucking math.
No, you missed the point by accepting the demonization of someone whose viewpoint you never even tried to take into account.
Good job. You're missing ALL the points because you've got like, half of one that makes you feel good when you rub it all over yourself.
I've always been right over here being fair, balanced, accepting my bias and being a real-life grown up instead of harassing and defaming people. Try joining in sometime. It's not as hard as it looks.
(Holy shit, guys, Cryptie loses her temper? That discounts EVERYTHING SHE'S EVER FUCKING SAID.)
BTW. Fuck you and the horse that takes you up the ass.
[18:37] LadyCrypty: Jay's ex, who he got into the Repo fandom with, decided she never wanted to talk to him or see him again. He checked with her a couple times while it was a "break" to see what was going on. He showed up a couple times to give her back some of her stuff. He stayed away from the shows she went to, he stayed away from the renfaire when she was going to be there, and she "gave" him a specific bar that she intended not to go to. [18:38] LadyCrypty: So she goes around telling the community that his sparse phone calls, notes, and occasional presence to return her shit constitutes stalking -- the whole Repo community regards him as a creepy stalker now -- and felt the need to show up recently, with her new boyfriend, to the bar she "gave" Jay. Games. Bullshit psycho bitch games. [18:39] LadyCrypty: So he contacts the other guy to say "Hey, I saw you there, didn't cause a scene, does that dispell some of the lies propagated about me?" and the guy is now stirring drama because he has a dick-cozy that he wants to keep warm and happy. [18:40] LadyCrypty: All the while, defamation of character and ostracism from the community has been rampant because nobody's allowed to question or challenge it. Fuck this noise. [18:40] (anonymous friend): That's a little insane [18:40] LadyCrypty: "Don't stalk me, I'm trying to stalk you." Serious.
Would you react with a Barney the Dinosaur singalong to this kind of crap? Come ON.
He'll break up with her and come back to tell Krow "She's not YOUR ex anymore, so stop calling her that!"
"...And stop stopping talking to her, just don't talk to her without stopping talking to her, because I'm the one busy stopping talking to her, because it's JUST A BREAK! I think I'd better make the rounds of her house again to make sure YOU'RE NOT STALKING HER."
Who's to know if your soul will fade at all? The one you sold to fool the world You lost your self-esteem along the way, yeah
Good god, you're comin' up with reasons Good god, you're draggin' it out And good god, it's the changin' of the seasons I feel so right, so follow me down and just
Fake it, if you're out of direction Fake it, if you don't belong, yeah Fake it, if you feel like infection Whoa, you're such a fuckin' hypocrite
You should know that the lies won't hide your flaws No sense in hiding all of yours You gave up on your dreams along the way, yeah
Good god, you're comin' up with reasons Good god, you're draggin' it out And good god, it's the changin' of the seasons I feel so right so follow me down and just
Fake it, if you're out of direction Fake it, if you don't belong, yeah Fake it, if you feel like infection Whoa, you're such a fuckin' hypocrite
I can fake with the best of anyone I can fake with the best of them all I can fake with the best of anyone I can fake it all
Who's to know if your soul will fade at all? The one you sold to fool the world You lost your self-esteem along the way, yeah
Good god, you're comin' up with reasons Good god, you're draggin' it out Good god, it's the changin' of the seasons I feel so right, man, follow me down and just
Fake it, if you're out of direction Fake it, if you don't belong, yeah Fake it, if you feel like infection Whoa, you're such a fuckin' hypocrite
Fake it, if you're out of direction Fake it, if you don't belong, yeah Fake it, if you feel like infection Whoa, you're such a fuckin' hypocrite
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Date: 2009-08-21 09:38 pm (UTC)Why do you ask?
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Date: 2009-08-23 11:20 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-08-25 09:21 am (UTC)she's not YOUR Tornado anymore. Might wanna look into a tag change at the very least. Or maybe just leaving her the hell alone?
Oh wait, you'll never have your shit together enough to take THAT hint.
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Date: 2009-08-25 12:39 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-08-25 10:56 pm (UTC)Sounds about right.
She's established a pattern of it now, too, straight from the fingertips of one of her other
victimsexes.no subject
Date: 2009-08-25 04:10 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-08-25 07:33 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-08-25 07:50 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-08-26 12:21 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-08-25 10:15 pm (UTC)How about you go around propagating her insane claims that his contacting her a few times while it was a "break" to see what was going on, or showing up to return her things, constituted "stalking?"
How about let's ignore defamation of character laws?
How about we ignore how this effects anyone else connected to him?
We're bigger kids, we can throw our weight around, right? Claiming to be an adult RELINQUISHES responsibility! I knew I missed something. Jeeze, does that ever take a fucking load off.
You know what, she wanted space, and that was cool. She wanted to find herself, that was cool. She didn't want to go into heavy explanations of what she was going through, that was cool.
When she shoved him out of the community with lies and defamation? Or was that one of her lackeys ...? Well, I saw most of that. I was there for most of that. That was not cool.
Telling him not to show up where she goes, and then showing up where she knew where he'd be, then either of you pulling a psychotic hissy-fit because he pointed it out? Bullshit. Pure fucking bright green babyshit mel-o-drama-llama bullshit.
OK?
Bullshit on every fucking level.
Bullshit to your claims to family, bullshit to your claims of honesty and compassion, bullshit to your faux maturity, get up, grow up, grow balls, grow your own mind, deal with it, grow the FUCK UP.
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Date: 2009-08-25 10:31 pm (UTC)Right here, supporting him directly, NOT trying to push her out of the Repo community, defaming her character, or harassing her.
I contacted her once to see her side of the story.
I contacted her a second time to warn her that she was seriously injuring him by taking the whole scene away from him.
But for the most part ...? His friends are grown up enough to stick where they're needed and do things right. Hers take part in a witch-hunt. Do the fucking math.
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Date: 2009-08-26 12:56 am (UTC)Just go back to The Real World Yorktown edition, or Big Brother, or whatever TRL emo knock off you guys crawled out of.
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Date: 2009-08-26 01:03 am (UTC)Good job. You're missing ALL the points because you've got like, half of one that makes you feel good when you rub it all over yourself.
I've always been right over here being fair, balanced, accepting my bias and being a real-life grown up instead of harassing and defaming people. Try joining in sometime. It's not as hard as it looks.
(Holy shit, guys, Cryptie loses her temper? That discounts EVERYTHING SHE'S EVER FUCKING SAID.)
BTW. Fuck you and the horse that takes you up the ass.
So unreasonable of me...
Date: 2009-08-26 01:42 am (UTC)[18:38] LadyCrypty: So she goes around telling the community that his sparse phone calls, notes, and occasional presence to return her shit constitutes stalking -- the whole Repo community regards him as a creepy stalker now -- and felt the need to show up recently, with her new boyfriend, to the bar she "gave" Jay. Games. Bullshit psycho bitch games.
[18:39] LadyCrypty: So he contacts the other guy to say "Hey, I saw you there, didn't cause a scene, does that dispell some of the lies propagated about me?" and the guy is now stirring drama because he has a dick-cozy that he wants to keep warm and happy.
[18:40] LadyCrypty: All the while, defamation of character and ostracism from the community has been rampant because nobody's allowed to question or challenge it. Fuck this noise.
[18:40] (anonymous friend): That's a little insane
[18:40] LadyCrypty: "Don't stalk me, I'm trying to stalk you." Serious.
Would you react with a Barney the Dinosaur singalong to this kind of crap? Come ON.
Re: So unreasonable of me...
Date: 2009-08-26 04:16 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-04-02 04:49 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-04-18 09:15 pm (UTC)lulz.
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Date: 2009-08-28 01:07 am (UTC)To what? I mean, Tornado IS the name HE gave her... better Tornado than using her real name, which would be kind of stalkery, don'tcha think?
But really? Really? THIS, of all things, is what you can find issue with, after all your talk?
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Date: 2009-08-28 01:11 am (UTC)like saying "my lunch from yesterday" or "my bowel movement from this morning."
the lunch is eaten, the toilet is flushed. just because it's digested and gone, doesn't cause it to stop being.
it's a literary thing, i guess one would have to be into writing and reading to understand it.
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Date: 2009-08-28 01:16 am (UTC)I still think you should change it.
In any case, see the rest of my comment for its real point.
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Date: 2009-08-28 01:17 am (UTC)honestly, unless it's a 3 second fix, it's not worth my time.
(how about we just all pretend "my tornado" actually means "fucking coward"?)
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Date: 2009-08-28 01:20 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-08-28 01:23 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-08-28 01:25 am (UTC)I say do it, and see what other petty made up offenses he gets mad at you for when you take this one away. :D
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Date: 2009-08-28 01:26 am (UTC)(next offense: "she still tastes like you.")
god... wait till he reads HER journal.
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Date: 2009-08-28 01:29 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-08-28 01:37 am (UTC)wait... what was the second one?
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Date: 2009-08-28 01:42 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-08-28 01:43 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-08-28 01:34 am (UTC)"...And stop stopping talking to her, just don't talk to her without stopping talking to her, because I'm the one busy stopping talking to her, because it's JUST A BREAK! I think I'd better make the rounds of her house again to make sure YOU'RE NOT STALKING HER."
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Date: 2009-08-28 01:38 am (UTC)wonder if when she destroys him, he's going to swallow his pride and apologize, come crawling for answers, or do the world a favour and kill himself?
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Date: 2009-08-28 01:44 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-08-28 01:28 am (UTC)livejournal.com/manage/tags.bml
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Date: 2009-08-28 07:11 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-08-31 06:25 pm (UTC)don't tell me you ran off with your tail between your legs *this* easily?
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Date: 2009-08-26 04:02 am (UTC)The one you sold to fool the world
You lost your self-esteem along the way, yeah
Good god, you're comin' up with reasons
Good god, you're draggin' it out
And good god, it's the changin' of the seasons
I feel so right, so follow me down and just
Fake it, if you're out of direction
Fake it, if you don't belong, yeah
Fake it, if you feel like infection
Whoa, you're such a fuckin' hypocrite
You should know that the lies won't hide your flaws
No sense in hiding all of yours
You gave up on your dreams along the way, yeah
Good god, you're comin' up with reasons
Good god, you're draggin' it out
And good god, it's the changin' of the seasons
I feel so right so follow me down and just
Fake it, if you're out of direction
Fake it, if you don't belong, yeah
Fake it, if you feel like infection
Whoa, you're such a fuckin' hypocrite
I can fake with the best of anyone
I can fake with the best of them all
I can fake with the best of anyone
I can fake it all
Who's to know if your soul will fade at all?
The one you sold to fool the world
You lost your self-esteem along the way, yeah
Good god, you're comin' up with reasons
Good god, you're draggin' it out
Good god, it's the changin' of the seasons
I feel so right, man, follow me down and just
Fake it, if you're out of direction
Fake it, if you don't belong, yeah
Fake it, if you feel like infection
Whoa, you're such a fuckin' hypocrite
Fake it, if you're out of direction
Fake it, if you don't belong, yeah
Fake it, if you feel like infection
Whoa, you're such a fuckin' hypocrite
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Date: 2009-08-26 04:09 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-08-26 04:17 am (UTC)